No, not quite the accumulation of all previous posts. Still working that out. This is about unstable people.
It’s still hard for me to grasp the idea that a mature adult, with multiple kids, significant life experience, still can’t have an adult conversation when something happens.
Today, I have lost a friend(s). Sadly one half of that group has zero issues with me, understands me and knows me on a more real level. It’s the significant other half that has some sort of past issues that can’t be bothered to deal with it. An event they never, ever dealt with and now takes it out on others without a single, mature thought about it.
So to those types of people, fuck you. I got better things to do with my life rather than even considering trying to solve such a situation. You talk a good game but it seems that it was all fake and our friendship meant nothing to you to begin with. Fine by me. I’ll move on as I don’t have those issues. Not interested in dragging it out. OH I’ll vent here, get it out but that’s part of the whole ‘letting go’ process.
Too bad about your kids though. You’ve already showed them how not to do things and this….this will only add to more spiritual damage. A lack of perspective that they could have otherwise learned and grown from. I feel for those kids but that’s their lives.
So, best of luck in the future and try not to wonder too hard why you have so many issues when you have such a poor outlook on life.